How can you be strong and vulnerable? I tend to be independent, to depend on myself to get things done. I think this stems from my childhood, my mom had to do so much around the house and especially when my dad was sick, my mom had to manage the running of the household, without much help from my dad. I was happy mowing lawns and doing yard work, not just doing household chores, like vacuuming and dusting. As an adult I carry this same philosophy, but I appreciate my husband with all he does to help around the house, he is my rock. There are times when I need his emotional and moral support, when I realize I am not superwoman, and I can’t do it all by myself. I know when I am weak, my Savior is there for me every step of the way.
What advice would you give to the next generation of strong women? It is good to be independent, but don’t put so much pressure on yourself, if you can’t do something on your own. It is ok to ask for help! Asking for help is not a sign of weakness.
Wendy’s Intentional Act of Kindness
How did you use the $100? I used my money for our COVID fund at church. I was hoping I would see how it helped someone in a particular way, but being at home with the quarantine, you are not having so much contact with people to find out what the needs are out there. After I donated my money, I kept hearing of different needs from individuals. The need to help others is always there, sometimes we may not have a connection to the situation, but God puts us where he needs us in order to spread his loving kindness.
What was the ‘Intentional Act of Kindness’ process like for you? I was honored to be asked to do this by Kristen. I hope my story may have an impact on someone.