What does "being strong" mean to you? To me, being strong means being open to adversity and ready to deal with challenges, having the courage to face any situation, acknowledging vulnerabilities, and embracing that they are part of life. Being strong means inspiring others to be strong through your actions, giving hope to the people around you that anyone can overcome challenging situations and that it's not the end of one's life.
What keeps you strong in times of trial? During challenging times, initially, I feel discouraged. I tend to allow myself to be affected by the difficulties because I don't want to confront them immediately, though this feeling doesn't last long. Once I regain my energy, I remind myself to be strong. I motivate myself to confront the situation head-on and rely on friends and family for support to help distract me from it. I just accept the situation, and then think about ways to come out of it. It's not easy, but I strongly believe we all can overcome adversity.
Who is a female role model in your life and why? My Mom! I know it may sound clichéd, but I consider myself lucky to have a mother like her. Despite facing challenges during my childhood, she remained remarkably resilient. She shielded my brother and me from the impact of those tough times, ensuring our education was unaffected. Even though she hasn't been part of the workforce, she consistently encouraged us to dream big, providing all the resources we needed to thrive. Her selflessness and strength make her the most admirable woman I know. She stood by us, unwavering, in every situation.
What advice would you give to the next generation of strong women? I was fortunate to have grown up in a supportive family, especially with my mother encouraging me to pursue higher education and enter the workforce. Unfortunately, not every girl or woman experiences this support. My advice to them: don't let others determine your worth or dictate your path. Follow what brings you happiness—whether it's painting, writing, or directing. Remember, you are already strong! Take the first step!
Once you are ready, be supportive. Give back by supporting women who may feel trapped. Encourage them to break free from their constraints and inspire them to do the same.
Ravali’s Intentional Act of Kindness
How did you use the $100? I donated a bicycle to a girl who required transportation for school but lacked the means, which was hindering her education. My mom is part of an international women's group called the Inner Wheel Club. They do service work and raise funds for various causes like schools, orphanages, old age homes, etc. I asked her if there was anyone who needed money for education, and she mentioned this cause. I wanted to donate to a girl especially to enhance her chances of becoming a strong independent woman.
What was the 'Intentional Act of Kindness' process like for you? I really appreciated going through this process. It helped me reflect on my past and reminded me of the importance of supporting women, especially considering the challenges many face in pursuing their aspirations. Thank you, Kristen, for giving me the opportunity to do this.