What does “being strong” mean to you? For me being strong represents:
continuing to go forward without necessarily knowing how things will turn out
being vulnerable
possessing an unwavering belief in self to be able to try things even when it scares me
the ability to love, have faith, say no, and know when to walk away
How does family shape your perception of strength? My grandmother arrived in the U.S. and worked as a nanny for a wealthy family in the upper west side of Manhattan. My mother, upon arriving in the US until retirement, worked as a home attendant, caring for elders. Despite how busy or tired, their love and dedication to us were unwavering. That’s strength to me. My family has taught me the importance of faith, unity, love, honesty, and humbleness and for me these things also culminate into strength.
What keeps you strong in times of trial? Ultimately, I want to make my parents proud. I also want to serve as a role model and source of inspiration for my nephews and niece, and those who identify as first-gen or are from underserved communities. So although at times it is hard being away from family and friends, traveling constantly for work, living in new cities, etc… I know there’s a bigger goal.
I saw education as my way to break the generational cycle and my interest has been in providing that guidance to the next generation. I will continue to take action to democratize access to education and career mobility for underrepresented minorities. My passion for driving diversity and inclusion and giving back to those from underrepresented communities fuels my involvement and serves as a continual source of inspiration.
How have your trials made you stronger? I cut it all off. I stood in front of the mirror crying, feeling ugly and ashamed, thinking my beauty was gone, but the long-lasting lie prevailed. Telling my story to my family and friends was challenging, but also healing. The process was painful, lengthy, months full of self-doubt and insecurities. Inch-by-inch the pain and self-doubt gave way to confidence, empowerment, freedom, strength and pride. Through it all, I’ve come to realize that happiness only comes from being authentic and going after what matters most, a realization that is, on its own, extremely valuable.
Most of the time, I wear my hair natural because I love who I am. I hope that the Afro-LatinX’s and others who, for generations, have been forced to strip and hide who they are, may be encouraged. My renewed confidence in who I am comes to being comfortable in my own skin, and realizing that natural hair is whatever I want my hair to be - whether it’s curly or straight.
Who is a female role model in your life and why? My mother serves as the biggest source of inspiration. (Good thing I’m writing in English and the question specifically asks for a female role-model, otherwise my dad would be jealous)
Fanny’s Intentional Act of Kindness
How did you use the $100? I donated to Teleton USA Foundation; a non profit which provides care to children with neurological, muscular and skeletal disabilities. Teleton's mission is to raise awareness to create a more inclusive world for children with disabilities. This nonprofit organization holds a very special place in my heart, largely due to my mother's unwavering support and encouragement for us to donate to their cause. Every year, we support their annual fundraising event, which is broadcasted on Univision, a prominent Spanish television network. The impact this nonprofit has on the community is truly remarkable and I am grateful for the opportunity to be a part of such a meaningful and inspiring cause.
What was the 'Intentional Act of Kindness' process like for you? Participating in this process was truly humbling and an introspective experience. It allowed me to delve deep into my understanding of what strength truly means and the kind of impact I wish to have in this world. As I pondered how to allocate the $100, I found myself grappling with the weight of responsibility that came with the decision. I wanted to ensure that whatever I chose to do with the money would be "worthy" of its purpose.
I suddenly had an epiphany - that the act of donating itself is a powerful and meaningful act of kindness. In this way, I came to realize that every act, big or small, carries value and can create a ripple effect of positive change.
As I contemplated where to direct my donation, my heart swelled with a sense of purpose and intention. The process helped me to not only feel a deeper sense of connection, but also reminded me of the strength and beauty of the human spirit. It inspired me to be more mindful and purposeful in my actions, and to never underestimate the power of acts of kindness.